Update on my Wife

Shalom Chaverim,

For those who have asked for an update, we are home. On Tuesday they gave her a cardio stress test and she had a seizure during the test. This prompted them to bring in a neurologist and run a number of neurology related tests as well. In the end, they believe that the problems she is having are related to some of her past problems, complications of complications and one medical problem leading to another. The issue is not resolved, but at this point, they do not think it is life threatening that she needs to be in the hospital. They have her following up with four different specialists as well as her primary care physician, in coming days.

As our 31st anniversary approaches in July, I am reminded just how much our lives have changed over those 31 years. Thirty one years ago, Inga “Kitty” was very healthy. We rode bikes together, went hiking in trails together and even did archery together. All that has changed.

As I have said, one of the hardest parts about being married to my wife, is seeing her in pain, and not being able to help. My wife suffers from chronic pain every day. The extensive abdominal surgeries she had from 2015 to 2018, and the septic shock in 2018 have left her in chronic pain. Every morning, when she can no longer sleep through it, pain wakes her up. And each night she cannot sleep until she is so exhausted that she can sleep through the pain. And so I am her constant caretaker. If she drops something on the floor, I go over and pick it up, because it is to painful for her abdomen to bend over and pick it up. Just getting up and going to the bath room or taking a bath is a matter of playing through the pain for her. Pain follows her everywhere and is her constant companion, she can never completely get away from it. She once kept up on the house, cooked meals etc. But she can no longer do any of those things. I keep the house and cook the meals, and I work at a desk just a few feet from her bed.

We are now home. Finances are tight. There were added expenses and co-pays due to the hospital stay, and we are facing more as she follows up with a multitude of doctor appointments in coming days. All of this and bills are due.

Now that I am home again, I have a lot of catching up to do.

I want to thank all of you supporting this work. I literally could not do it without you!

This work takes hours of my time. But I also realize that it is not the activity of James Trimm alone who is responsible to do this work, it is all of us together who are charged with the responsibility of accomplishing this work. I very much look on the efforts of this restoration work as a cooperative one with each one of you. We are all joint heirs with Messiah and should always be about our Father’s business. I am honored to be able to be partnered with truth seekers as this restoration of Scripture moves forward in fulfillment of prophecy.

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